In my article FOR THE YOUNGSTERS which you can read by by clicking here I persuade my readers to start showing more affection to their parents, and I share these six suggestions of how to practically do it. I STRONGLY ADVISE YOU TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE as a starting point.
Now these six suggestions are just a starting point but there are countless ways to show love. These suggestions aim to inspire your creativity and encourage you to explore additional ways of expressing your affection.
Here are the six suggestions
- HEARTFELT LOVE LETTERS
If your parents can read, consider writing them heartfelt letters from time to time, sharing deep personal thoughts that you wouldn’t necessarily share publicly.
Love letters hold a timeless beauty that can’t be replaced by text messages or social media posts. No matter your age, parents will always cherish receiving a love letter. From kindergarteners drawing their innocent expressions of love to grown-ups pouring their hearts onto paper, the act of writing to parents holds immense significance.
Express your gratitude to them in specific detail, sharing what you admire about them. Add a touch of joy by including some humor. Creating cherished memories through love letters shouldn’t be a one-time gesture, but an ongoing practice of affection. AND YOU DON’T NEED TO GROW UP AND HAVE A LOT OF MONEY FOR YOU TO START DOING THIS.
- UNEXPECTED GIFTS
Gifts have a magical way of conveying love, whether they are anticipated or come as a delightful surprise. However, there is a certain enchantment in unexpected gifts, those that fulfill a genuine need at just the right moment.
Gifts can take various forms, tangible or intangible. Remember, the love letters we mentioned earlier are gifts too. Consider giving your writing-loving mom a special pen or notebook, or a stylish cape for your dad if he adores them. Remember, it’s not about the price tag but the sincerity of the gesture.
If they give you money to shop for yourself, spare some little and get them something too. By doing so, you show that you value their thoughtfulness and appreciate all they do for you.
Feel free to seek recommendations from your siblings or friends for gift ideas that would touch your parents’ hearts. You could even ask Dad to give you a hint on what your mum like or vise verse.
- LEARN ONE OF THEIR HOBBIES
Try to discover your parents’ hobbies and engage in their hobbies with them. Whether it’s their religious practices, sports, cars, reading, music, or movies, show genuine interest and participate alongside them.
If your parents find solace in prayer, they will be delighted if you ask to pray with them. If they love cooking, surprise them by showing interest and lending a helping hand in the kitchen from time to time.
If possible, prepare a special breakfast or their favorite meals when they least expect it. The element of surprise adds an extra touch of sweetness to these shared moments.
- BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE. MAKE THEM PROUD.
There is no better way to show your parents you love them than to be the best you can be in whatever you do. Work hard to develop your talents, whatever they may be. Most parents are not impressed by our accomplishments, but by our efforts.
To some parents, giving them a love letter or an unexpected gift will not mean much if you are lazy and not living up to your potential. But if you are working hard and doing your best, they will appreciate it more than anything else.
Ask your parents for support when you need it. It doesn’t always have to be financial. Parents love when their children depend on them for support. It shows that you trust them and that you value their guidance. But be sure to ask for help in areas where you know they are capable of helping you. It can be hurtful to ask for something they wish they could give or do for you, but cannot.
- OFFER TO HELP
One of the best ways to show your parents you love them is to offer to help them. Even if you don’t think you can do much, they will find something you can do to help.
For example, if your dad is working on a project on his computer, you could offer to make him a cup of coffee or help him organize his files. If your mom is busy planning work for tomorrow, you could offer to help her with the laundry or take out the trash.
You don’t always have to ask to help. Sometimes, you can just go ahead and help without being asked. This shows your parents that you are thinking of them and that you care about them.
Offering to help your parents is a simple way to show them how much you love and care about them.
- LISTEN TO THEM, THEN SPEAK.
Have you ever realized that parents often desire our attentive ears more than we crave theirs? How about embracing this opportunity to truly listen to them? It doesn’t require much but holds immeasurable value.
This means really listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk. It means paying attention to what they are saying, both verbally and non-verbally. It means asking questions to clarify what they are saying. And it means not interrupting.
When you listen to your parents, you are showing them that you care about what they have to say. You are also showing them that you respect them. And you are building a stronger relationship with them. And indeed, they have a lifetime of experience to share with us
CONCLUSION
I want to emphasize that love can be communicated through various means, both publicly and privately. In today’s age of social media, we often share our feelings for loved ones in public posts. However, it’s important to note that public displays of affection are often limited to special occasions or significant events like birthdays, graduations, or weddings. If your expressions of love have been confined to such occasions, I urge you to consider going beyond and communicating your love privately as well.
The most cherished memories of affection are often the ones that catch us off guard, the ones that are not expected or shared with the world. These moments of tenderness and connection are deeply personal and meaningful. They create a bond that goes beyond the public eye.
That is the end. Again, I strongly encourage you to read the full article called FOR THE YOUNGSTERS. If you would like to follow me on my social media platforms, Click here to follow me on Twitter, Click here to follow me on Instagram and Click here to follow me on Facebook
